Woman Dupes Cheating Ex Into Paying $30,000 in Rent and Bills, Then Dumps Him for Another Man

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    When the "2 months until renewal" letter came, I told him I'm not renewing and I met someone (I didn't, was just casually using dating apps). He went off on how I'm a b and this and that but whatever, what's he gonna do? I did end up moving out when he was at work but I wasn't worried that he wasn't going to pay the rent. I'll always find somewhere to live. He can't afford an eviction.
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    Made cheating ex pay $30,000 in rent and bills over a year
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    My ex and I were in our late 20s (this was 2 years ago). We lived in a pretty high end apartment and all our bills equaled $2,500 a month. (Edit: I know this seems crazy for "high end" - it's not a major city and it's not really a wealthy area). Second year together, he's depressed. I started a business before we met and I was starting to bring home $5,000-ish per month. I decided I can cover
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    everything while he takes a few months off work so he can get himself together. He was a teacher and he was always stressed. However, he spent all that time playing video games. The apartment would smell so bad. He wouldn't shower. There were energy drinks everywhere. I ran all the errands. I even paid for him to go to therapy since he didn't have insurance anymore and I'm not sure if
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    he actually went but he came back after two sessions and said his therapist doesn't see anything wrong with him so there's no reason to keep going. I encourage him to get formally diagnosed with something and maybe get on meds. He was told he may have adhd but he never got any tests or anything. He just said "they think I have adhd" and went back to
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    his games. He also never did chores and if I “nagged" him he flipped out on me a few times cause he d d in the game. Apartment gets messier. I'm sick of his presence. Six months later, I tell him he needs a job. He breaks down crying and says he can't because his is so bad, he can't function, more tears. He's also the only boy in his family and the youngest and according to his
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    sister's stories, his parents would give him whatever he wanted if he cried. Eight months in, he still doesn't have a job and won't get help. I'm fed up. I went into his phone to snoop and found on discord, he was telling gaming friends he's some big st day trader, I'm his annoying GF who does nothing all day, and he has take care of me which he does through "playing the market." He says he feels
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    guilty for leaving me because I "have a lot of issues." t girls in games he He is also using fake pics to s plays!! It's not even him in those pics!!!!!! A few days later, I tell him that he needs to get a job. Crying starts again. I tell him I get it but it's been months and my business is no longer doing well. I can't make next month's rent. In fact, I will likely call my sister and stay with her for a bit since my business is online and I can work from anywhere.
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    He has nowhere to go. His only family is across the country (he moved here to finish school) and he has no money to move back. His parents p sed and all of his siblings don't have room for him. His credit is also s and he has no current employment so he can't get a place himself. He starts to yell at me asking me why I didn't tell him sooner. He would've “looked harder” for a job. It took t
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    him all of two weeks to secure two jobs: another teaching job and a graveyard shift at a gas station. He ended up begging me to renew the lease with him since he can't get his own place. I did. He's never home now. He works all day at school, sleeps or grades papers when he's home, and works at the gas station. I stopped cooking for him and I would only do my own laundry. He would also keep asking how my business is
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    doing and I told him not well, I'm struggling, and I'd bring moving in with my sister again. He asked me to try harder (lol) or get a real job and if I bring moving out up, he drops it. I loved that he worked two jobs and was never around too, I didn't even have to f k him (rather, say I have a headache). So he ended up paying for everything, which I consider paying me back for all the s I paid for. I went on
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    dates during that time, out with friends, some parties. Most important, I got to save sooo much money and lived for free for the duration of that lease. I used that money to hire a small team so I could outsource some of what I did. When the "2 months until renewal" letter came, I told him I'm not renewing and I met someone (I didn't, was just casually using dating apps). He went off on how
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    I'm a b h and this and that but whatever, what's he gonna do? I did end up moving out when he was at work but I wasn't worried that he wasn't going to pay the rent. I'll always find somewhere to live. He can't afford an eviction. Thats basically it. Now, I have a really nice savings and I'm looking at buying a house and starting a family next year, with my fiance... who, as ironic and unbelievable as it is, works in a form of finance (not trading, he helps with loans and consulting at a bank).
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    BigComfyCouch4 . 7 hr. ago There ain't nothing petty about that revenge.
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    • Brave_anonymous1 4 hr. ago · edited 4 hr. ago Petty would be leaving him a letter on the kitchen table after you moved out. You can do it honey. You are an excellent and experienced stock market trader, aim for the stars! I will be forever grateful to you for taking care of me while I did nothing all day, and being so patient with my many many issues. Please accept this $5 discord card as a farewell gift.
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    Zoreb1 7 hr. ago I would have dropped him a lot sooner. Guess who would find his video games missing until he had secured employment?
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    Able-Sea6372 OP. 6 hr. ago Learning experience I guess. Wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt but idk, seeing those discord messages of him basically trying to reverse the situation into me being the problem showed me how capable he was of being manipulative. I think that was the snapping moment.
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    frostandtheboughs 7 hr. ago So basically he wasn't actually cripplingly depressed - he just wanted to be a manbaby moocher. Glad u turned the tables on him.
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    IamMDS 7 hr. ago This is so satisfying. I can feel how much this d and your guy deserved to get sc satisfaction in getting him to pay you back. I love when women realize their man is a deadbeat and get the h I out. Well freaking done!!
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    lucwin2020 5 hr. ago He got exactly what he deserved for being lazy for so long! Good for you to save all that scratch!
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    LibraryMouse4321 . 6 hr. ago Good for you! That was so satisfying! Look at that. He WAS fully capable of working after all. He just didn't want to. I'm glad you made him pay for his s y behavior.
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    klasik89. 22 min. ago Two horrible people in a relationship.

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